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When it is time to give up?

Posted by பிரேமலதா மேல் ஏப்ரல் 10, 2007

When is enough enough?

I am not obsessed. I know I have come close to obsession, about three years ago, when it consumed my life, but now I am just determined. I will succeed, because the alternative is not an option to me.

In her “life after infertility”, Tertia talks about several things.  

I deeply envy those people who have come to the point in their lives where they say ‘enough’, …………They get off the clichéd roller coaster and get on with their lives,……….away from …….  all ……. betas, hopes and disappointments. They go back to being normal. How wonderfully liberating. It must be like being let out of prison. It is the place of ‘acceptance’ that I spoke about in an earlier post. I envy them. I really do.

To get back to the question of when is enough enough, I think the answer is when the pain of trying is worse than the pain of giving up. For me, the pain of stopping is way greater than the pain of trying.

She is a mother of twins now. She was on radio recently

பரிந்துரை (blog reco) : themadmomma

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